Getting your baby used to other people

10 Dec
Getting your baby used to other people

How your baby’s growing: 5 months old

Your baby may start showing signs of one of her first major emotional milestones — stranger anxiety. She may become clingy and anxious around new (and even familiar) people and may cry if a stranger suddenly approaches her.

Keep this in mind when you’re around people she doesn’t know, and try not to be embarrassed when she cries in someone else’s arms — just take her back and calm her down by holding her yourself. Tell your friends and family to approach your little one with slow, gentle movements.

A case of stranger anxiety doesn’t mean you have to avoid new faces. Your baby will benefit from being around people other than you and your partner. Just remember that she needs your patience and understanding to get through this very important stage of development.

• Learn more fascinating facts about your 5-month-old’s development.

Your life: Getting your baby used to other people

When you were pregnant, you may have worried about whether your baby would bond with you. And now you may find that the two of you are so tight, she howls with protest if anybody else comes near — even your partner. When your baby rejects everyone else, it can be hard on them, and it means more work for you. That’s why getting used to other people is an important part of your baby’s socialization.

A strong, lasting bond grows through regular day-to-day interactions, so encourage Dad or your partner to get involved in even the most basic baby care tasks, like changing diapers, bathing, and feeding. Have him carry the baby around when he’s going about his day — and make time for play, as well. Keep your distance at first so your baby can’t hear or smell you. One idea: Divide baby care chores so your partner handles the daily bath or the bedtime routine every evening.

Expose your baby to friends and family, too. Try holding your baby while the other person talks and plays with her. Then hand her over to the other person and stay close. Eventually, leave briefly and come back. Repeat this step, making the interval you’re away longer and longer.

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Posted by on December 10, 2008 in Health and wellness


One response to “Getting your baby used to other people

  1. Barbara

    August 10, 2011 at 9:37 pm

    At 2 months old dn’t you need to hold your Baby most of the time even when she sleeps to help the bonding.? The problem is she doesn’t like to be held by others really and only stops crying for me??


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